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Kayli's avatar

I, too, am one clinging to SVU (my dog's name is Stabler, so I feel I must) and feel hopeful about the direction this season is going. The last few have been a sloooog.

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Tembe Denton-Hurst's avatar

okay I'm glad someone else thinks so! I'm loving the nepo baby character.

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Kayli's avatar

SAME. I think heโ€™s going to pay for the person with the new baby to get the degree she wants. ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿผ

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Roya Shariat's avatar

On TMJ: If you are able to find a DO, a Doctor of Osteopathic Medicine, they are trained to do all sorts of treatments on the face and body to relax muscles. Seeing Dr. Vaghasia at One Medical for this both helped me with jaw clenching but on the whole has helped with tension all over my body! I love Osteopaths now. Separately, a friend of mine went to a TMJ Doctor in NYC who cured her lifelong issue in one visit - his name is Dr Nojan Bakhtiari.

Also in a journal era and I want all the damn washi tape and stickers!

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Tembe Denton-Hurst's avatar

ooh thank you!! and yessss, re: journal era, you get it

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Marissa Gallerani's avatar

I sadly have no great suggestions for TMJ other than getting a super sexy mouthguard for at night and standing in solidarity with you and our tight jaws.

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Tembe Denton-Hurst's avatar

the dentist is fitting me for one in the next few weeks! fingers crossed it helps.

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Marissa Gallerani's avatar

Fingers crossed for you! My dentist made mine over a decade ago and itโ€™s still holding up. It has helped with the teeth grinding though Iโ€™m still an anxious person so whoโ€™s to say on the jaw clenching.

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Ali LaBelle's avatar

Happy new year!!! I always love reading these so much.

Re: TMJ, Iโ€™ve tried a lot of things, and whatโ€™s worked the best by far is, unfortunately, masseter botox. Iโ€™m taking a break from it currently (itโ€™s expensive!) and am going to the chiropractor in the meantime (also expensive, but less so) and itโ€™s helped, too. Good luck, my sister in jaw pain.

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Tembe Denton-Hurst's avatar

thank you for the recommendations and happy new year :)

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Steph Halchin's avatar

+1 on masseter botox for tmj pain, unfortunately lol

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Kait's avatar

Thank you for being honest about The Wedding People, because no one else was. I was curious about it and this was the push I needed to remove it from my reading pile. Also canโ€™t wait to read Creation Lake. Several people have told me they were disappointed by it but I find that hard to believe. Kushner never disappoints.

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Caroline's avatar

Bought the purple satin bag on your rec, excited for its aubergine capaciousness ๐Ÿ‘œ

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Alexandria Williams's avatar

- I will get you the fountain pen.

- How many cats now????

- Why didnโ€™t you tell me about the Jamaican detectives?

- I loved December with you.

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Lauren's avatar

I recently started knitting and would recommend starting with a thicker yarn and larger needles and just creating a square to practice the stitches - makes it much easier when you go to start your first pattern. Also- so many helpful YouTube videos out there. Iโ€™m excited to hear how it goes for you!

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